With the web surfing powers of Tish and the inspiration of a picture taken by my photographer...with their powers combined, I was led to the pair of shoes that became THE one. Allow me to introduce you to my Luichiny pair, "Primal". I love the detail of the busy grosgrain ribbon action and the attached crystals...and most importantly-- the HEART on the sole!!
This picture here was taken by my photographer. The shoes in this picture are actually another pair, but it was the heart on the sole that I found endearing.
Luckily, these shoes did not take forever to find nor did it cost an arm and a leg! Tish happened to find a Luichiny pair ("Duchess") that she loved and after recognizing that same heart, I had to further explore the Luichiny line! Already, the price seemed affordable and with Shoebuy.com always having 15%-20% off coupons-- a $10 off coupon + 10% off for new registers later, I am now a proud owner of a pair of Luichiny shoes...with the hearts! Score!
I'm also considering purchasing Tish's "Duchess" pair in dark champagne because it's just so darn cute! Check out the bow tie on the back and the zipper action. Looooove it!
Longest blog ever.
I talk to everyone close to me about my next career move. I've left Houston along with my career in Real Estate. This move was a great way for me to make a clean break from the industry. I had a good run and I made a lot of money at JDR, but it's not the life I want for myself. I didn't want to be an assistant for the rest of my life and I had no desire of being an agent. I didn't want the inconsistent income, the bullshit of competing for business, and shady clients. So, now that I'm in Victoria I have some time to think.
I've been tossing back and forth whether to teach or to pursue a career in HR. Teaching is second nature to me. I've taught preschool programs for Montessori, Head Start and a Hebrew school. It is a very rewarding profession, but I don't think it's a very respectable one. When I taught I felt like a highly paid babysitter. Stephen thinks teaching has become a government job and I agree with him. It's way too much stress to pass the TAKS. Plus, teachers' salaries cap out at $50,000. Teachers with Master's degrees for gifted and talents students can make a LITTLE more, but that's it. I have no desire to teach G&T students, so I would make $50,00 after teaching for 20 years. The only advantage is that I would only have to work 190 or so days a year and I'd be home for Oprah. Well, I've pretty much decided teaching is not what I want for myself.
I'm definitely more interested in HR. I don't have any experience in HR, so I will have to start off as a generalist and work my way to something good. I will have to listen to bitchy employees for a few years but I'm okay with that if it will get me where I want. My goal would be recruiter. I know I have to ability to do it. If I can work for UL and Mary Kay, I can pretty much do anything. I'm hoping to find a temp job in Victoria and gain some experience. Stephen definitely supports me in this field, not so much the other. I'm so lucky to be in the position where he makes enough money that I can take a break and figure out my next move. Also, it's good to know that I'm not the only in the same situation. Another Lady of Leisure is going through the same thing.
I'll keep everyone posted on the job hunting next week.
2008 is finally here!! And that means 10 more months until the wedding. On that note, some wedding-related events have taken place since I last blogged which includes wedding bands and wedding dress being purchased. As much as I'd like to post the picture of the dress, I have to hold off on that since Jae tends to frequent this site. As for the venue, still in progress!!!
Recently, we took a trip to SF over the New Years weekend. This trip has rekindled my love for that city. These are just a few pics that take me back...
In other news, this is the BRIDAL month! So many events going on all over Houston to assist the brides of 2008 and on. Me, Jae and the girls (sister and Janelle) attended the Bridal Extravaganza that was a bit overwhelming. One of the photographers I had been corresponding with asked me to meet him at the event to have our appointment. When we got there, he seemed so distant and not personable as he was over the phone and through e-mail. As much as we like his portfolio, that kind of customer service is a complete turn off. Also, if you can't develop chemistry with your photographer, that could translate through the pics. Fortunately, we came across another photographer's booth and hit it off well with them. I should've taken a mugshot of the first photographer and post it on here for all to avoid. :P
And lastly, it feels good to come home to this everyday....
Chris and Clacie's wedding was very beautiful. The ceremony and reception were a true reflection of the couple.
The ceremony was held in a Catholic Church and the reception was on the water at Freeport Park. I was surprised to see that not many people, if any, people cried. Since Chris and Clacie have been together for quite a long time, I figure there would be outburts of joyous tears. Clacie did get choked up during her vows but quickly recovered.
The food was great. The menu included broccoli, green beans, mashed potatoes, chicken breast and roast beef. It was all very delicious. Note to self: next time I marry Stephen, I will use "Affairs to Remember" to cater my reception. An open bar is always a great idea, but not when most of the the wedding guests are not mature enough to handle an open bar, i.e myself. I had a bit too much wine that night. I sang karaoke, which I would never do in front of mixed company. Ahh. There are definitely moments of that night I wish I could take back, especially the after party. I sure my husband will always associate Chris and Clacie's wedding as one of my finest hours.
Clacie's engagement and wedding gave me an opportunity to see many people I have lost touched with over the years, especially the Riggs family. I'm glad I had an opportunity to catch up with them at the wedding. They seemed to really miss me and want to talk. I really do wish them all the best and hope to run into them again in the Jackson. As for Daniel, I have still have no words for him. He is a very sad person. I want to feel sorry for him but I can't. He deserves everything bad he has coming to him. He and Stephen talked a tremenous amount throughout the day, which I found very strange. I not sure if Stephen was keeping an eye on him or if Daniel was trying to figure out the scoop on us, perhaps I'm just full of myself. I think I just might be full of myself.
All in all, a very beautiful wedding and I'm glad I was a part of it. I wish Chris and Clacie all the best and I hope they're having a great time in Hawaii.
This is probably the worst first blog ever.
I want to be able to wear any kind of shoe I want. Is that so much to ask? I love heels. I feel like a fat frumpy boy in flats or low heels. I need heels to elongate my legs so I look thinner. I can change almost anything about myself (without surgery) except my feet. I have to have multiple surgeries on both my feet. The dr. won't operate on both feet on the same time. I have to take 2 months off from work for each foot. Out of three daughters, I'm the only one with all the problems. I have all the bad genes. I hope my children get my husband's genes.
When is a good time to have the surgery? I'm going to need it soon, because the pain will only get worse as time passes. Now would be a good time but I'm not in the position financially to do it. Maybe the next year or two. Ugh. I hate my feet.
I forgot to acknowledge Boston's 3-month birthday on Sunday. Here's to her growing days...
This was during her first day home.
Boston loves Simba's ears, sleeping and winning you over with her puppy eyes.
They seem to have a special connection. (Not really but I say this to make Jae feel better.) :P
Day 3 - still unproposed to.
anyway, moving on! i made this collage after work as a way to get my mind off of not being engaged on Day 3.
This here is Boston. She is turning 3 months soon. In her spare time, she enjoys ripping off the cat's ear, burping and running off with strangers. Otherwise, you can always find her sleeping, eating or creating chaos in her surrounding. Her latest strengths include using the puppy eyes techique and obeying the command, "come". Her weakness involves not being able to climb down the staircase.
Jae can't keep surprises to himself. The other day, he told me he was working on photoshop and I asked him if he was editing pics and he said, "No um I can't tell you". The next day, he told me he had to go to Hobby Lobby without me. A guy going to a crafts store without his girlfriend??? Unheard of. Without me having to pry, he ended up telling me what he was working on. I present you with his wonderful collage of us! haha I really like how he captured some of my uncensored facial expressions such as the one on the top right corner that says I'm gonna slap you if you take one more picture!